August 25, 2004
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the second thing my dad’s friend’s friend said to me today after ‘hello’ was, ‘i have a son, he graduated top of his class at yonsei … 31 … he doesn’t smoke, he drinks a little … i have pictures on the internet’… is this what my love life has come to? parental personals? … i got a flash into my doomed fate as mrs.over-the-hill alcoholic overachiever-shudder … i could be paranoid but i think my poor little parents [conspiring together with their ajushi and ajuma friends] are trying to hook me up with a husband -_-;;; ya ever hear of how friends and family join forces and gang up on a drug addict, to try and get the person the ‘help’ that he/she needs … a ‘drug intervention’? … this is the same sh*t and the plague of korean agashis all around the world … ‘save the poor unmarried korean girl over 20 intervention’ … but seriously, i am accidentally running into a suspicious number of middle aged parents desperately seeking mionuris … there’s something fishy going on >=I
my parents are pretty old-fashioned and this is their [combined] list of requirements to date any of their daughters: 1. be korean … ya know how inter-racial/national marriage is like some kind of urban legend amongst korean ajumas … if you marry someone that isn’t korean, you will have mentally retarded children-if you marry someone that isn’t korean, blahblahblah … my parents take it one step further and shun any boyfriend prospects with parents originating from the cheolla province of korea lol … neways-
this blog is dedicated to my sister julia who has recently gotten engaged and is the one that got everybody started asking me so, when are u gonna get married?? congratulations and thanks for nothing -_-
Comments (47)
WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAtever! quit trying to milk a sob story! i have to endure hair pulling and monkey-toe pinches all the live long day :…(
mr. leechface will surface one of these days!! *hint*hint* SUCKSUCKSUUUUHCK
lol, welcome back jae!
we all miss u very very much up in lala land~
It’s a conspiracy and like primed professionals I think that all parents become better over time. IT’S A PARENT thing. I guess I might have to get used thinking about having deformed and mentally diabled kids.
Parental Personals….I like that line. Yeah I got that too. Isn’t it funny how slick parents try to make it sometimes. So do you remember so and so….she’s looking good, have you noticed?
Good luck dodging all the love grenades being lobbed at you. Think of it as your bopot camp experience
wait, who’s older you or jemi? cuz if it’s you… wow… wow… lotta accion… LOTTA accion.
Dang…nice pictures. You and your friends looking good! *faints*
Thanks! ; ) When are you going back to K-land and teach more english?? Your profile pic doesn’t wink anymore, I personally like that one better. O yeah, good luck with the parental arrangements haahaa and, those pics you have with yours girls look goooood! ~ ~
i only joined this stupid xanga cuz of you…
sheesh.
i came across ur xanga and i just want to say, g’luck w/ the parents meddling in your love life. i feel you on all that….the suggestions, the pressure, the surpise meetings (with strangers), etc.
hahaha
miami is dope – nice beach, dope clubs (some that are indoor and outdoor together), good cuban food. if you ever go, pack ur sun screen and bring some $$$ for the clubs b/c the cover/drinks are expen$ive.
What the ajumas say is true…
William Hung-
yeah, uh-huh- from American Idol- Half-Korea-Half-Chinese.
Of course I made it to work!
looking slick! =)
sux to be u! lol. j/k. i hear ya girl! my parents did the exact same thing a yr. ago…and yea, they know best now, for their sake, to not intervene with my personal life. now, i’m known for being a picky bitch… =( anyhow, i think i write too much…
welcome back jae! =)
referring back to my comment… about the pics you and your gals took, your friend in baby blue is really…. ^^
I never knew you had a page
anyways..yes..turtles are vicious!!! =)
so when are you gonna get married? haha. you know you like bruce lee
hmmmm… i might be able to pull off being korean and i’m not an alcoholic *hint hint* ^_~
hey.. guess who.. yea its been a while.. im doing good in italy.. hopefully u are too.. just wanted to say hi. ….
When I mention something I heard about cheollado people- my folks give me a warning look – the way that liberals will look at you when you say something about black people – the “Hey black people have a right to live” look but then they also give a kind of shrug which is like acknowleding “yeah, they are kind of f*ed up tho’”.
nice picts jay looking good stranger. Yeah LA is cool havent done anything except for in and out burger but we are heading out soon, you could of came with me too =p anyways laters
girll where’s ur meat!!! frikkin skinnnny……
i’m getting the hook ups attempts out here in asia. i went to go see my dad and it was like nonstop… apparently my bros are getting it too haha… can’t we sponge off our parents for the rest of our lives
hey.. i have a site to up pics to.. its just i dun have the laptop and i cant upload em from the library.. sucky yhting is the pics are only good for a month.. anyway..
umm gunners spot.. just means i’m in charge of a crew served gun.. it takes a three man team to work.. im the head honcho.
Congrats to your sister on her engagement, and don’t worry, your man will come, so tell everyone to be patient
I hope all is well with you, Have a great weekend take care 
dyam girl
i went to luces on fri and sonar on sat
what about u?
Ah Just elope (I’m hoping that’s how you spell it). More romantic and dramatic that way. It’ll make for intresting family gatherings lol
I saw you subscribed. Pretty pictures on your geo site. Hahaha…don’t you hate that about trying to be hooked up by someone elses parents? Lol…thank God I was adopted, so my white parents didn’t do that to me. Take care :9
so you just have to be korean? wow, youre parents are cool.
Which song? There are over 15 in the playlist at the top of my page. Let me know
they were there for vacation.. i’m here for GOOD. haha.. j/k.. i’m here for 1/2 a year??? too bad i didn’t do it last year when u guys werein asia too….
hahahahahahahh i din’t have to sit beside halmuni ONCE! not once lalalalala YAGOLIJIIIIIIII merongmerong~
jay i think me and you should just tie the knot. we’ll have the ceremony BEFORE jemi does and we’ll steal all her good wedding ideas. cha-ching!!
jae walking? is it fun?
nope its all me jay so you can have it if you want…how’s life? awfully quiet from up north lately…
what are YOU doin on hallowe’en
do u still go on webcam chat wit ur sis while drunk? how come ur not raving on hallowe’en. what else better is there to do. the only night where everything that goes wrong is all right.
tyrone
My parents bother me every other day about finding a girl and getting married and the like. It’s quite irritating. My mother actually said, “Jehbal chajurah” to me.
yeah, that’s me!
signed UP! now i can go after girls and use ‘I’ve seen you on xanga!’ as a pick up line.
arent there import models who are half korean? oh well… i got xanga like early summer.. or late spring… got too caught up reading others’ entries that i thot i’d make a stupid blog of my own.
…i so replied to ur entry about chinese “in response to …”
Update your page, 8282828282828.
Aww thank you for the Birhtday greeting!!!
I hope all is well for you!!!
A QC=Quality Coach
Wassssssssssssssssup jae
So did you drop off from the face of the world?!!?
update!!
u know, all this time, I never read that part about Julia..hahaha…congrats!!
im not sure if your going to see this.. but the first thing i’d have to say would be get some booty.. heh.. next thing in line would be to eat some good ass food..
hope your doing good.. kinda miss chit chattin with u.. . .